Why did you decide to foster? Were there any particular drivers for you to make the decision?
We decided to foster because we really wanted to have a child in our lives and because we wanted to give back to a community that has helped us in the past. We went down the path of providing disability short breaks because we both have quite intense jobs, and a love of travel that we have been keen to continue.
How did you find the approval process? Did anything stand out or take you by surprise?
The approval process was very thorough, with lots of visits from our social worker, some paperwork and a medical prior to going to panel. It took place quite gradually, and mostly with evening visits in our own home. We found the process quite enjoyable, and the social worker we were allocated was very friendly and supportive, giving us a clear idea of what to expect of the pathway. We had initially wondered if our jobs would prevent us from being approved - but this was certainly not the case and the team has been very flexible around our work patterns through the whole process!
Did you have any concerns when you considered fostering?
We did have concerns, especially having no children of our own! We worried about what skills we may lack, whether our house was 'child proof' and how our cat would take to sharing his space! But we felt well supported, we could ask any questions and the process of being matched and slowly introduced to a child was very helpful - we felt we could do things at our own pace.
What has your time fostering been like so far?
We're in the early days, but so far we have really enjoyed the process! We find it a challenge, but very rewarding - we're making many happy new memories together!
Do you have any advice or words for people considering fostering?
We've found the team so helpful, if you're considering fostering just contact and have a chat about what might suit you! The experience is really very rewarding and has certainly changed our lives for the better!
